“He Started it!”

We all know that futile line kids use when they’re caught fighting:
“He started it!”

One person pokes, the other reacts, and suddenly both are equal participants in the mess. Both end up getting punished, even though one just took the bait.

Now imagine if, instead of escalating, we had a system that helped us step back from that very first spark—the moment when a quarrel begins.

That’s where SpatzAI comes in.

SpatzAI is designed to pause that instinctive reaction, to enable us to separate the issue from the person, and to stop a minor spat from turning into a full-blown confrontation.

Instead of confrontation, you address the issue.
Instead of blame, you acknowledge behavior.
Instead of both sides “getting punished,” the process creates fairness.

By using the Spatz process (chat app and team review) you give yourself and your teammates structured choices. That structure makes it easier to address the behavior without being dragged into the spiral of one-upmanship.

Because in the end, the point isn’t who started it.
It’s whether we’ve built a system to stop it fairly before it consumes everyone.