I try look at life like this…a series of agreements and or disagreements and I try to actively seek both. Through this lens I don’t see a child or adult’s behavior as misbehavior just as a disagreement between us.
As my mum would say “it takes two to tango” so it is up to the two of us to resolve this disagreement NOT up to me to discipline them.
Seeking a new agreement from our disagreement can be time consuming but I believe the benefits far out way the effort.
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