If I asked an AI during the Turing test, why we were having this conversation what would its answer be? It would probably say, to prove or make sure it was the one, the one it says it is. Maybe that is the same reason we have conversation too, to make sure we are the... Continue Reading →

I think that we all are tending..... Tending to agree or tending to disagree. Most of us tend to hide our tending when we disagree. ie pre-tending!

Hey.... so what you think of this... That conversation is the process where we either agree or disagree and do it enjoyably? and anywhere in between this spectrum ......the spectrum is between Agree and Disagree. So it is not really a "conversation" if it is not done enjoyably ie. interrigation, debate, enquiry, discussion, etc do... Continue Reading →

I try look at life like this...a series of agreements and or disagreements and I try to actively seek both. Through this lens I don't see a child or adult's behavior as misbehavior just as a disagreement between us. As my mum would say "it takes two to tango" so it is up to the... Continue Reading →

How does one turn Nagotiating (nagging) into Negotiating (making a fair and constructive deal)? Easy, form an agreement that 3 strikes and your out ie we can only repeat our negotiation point 3 times before we have to revamp and change it. Nagotiating: occurs because one or both subjects hammer home the same point over... Continue Reading →

Object now or complain later…why do we usually choose the later? Using 7 subjective ways, I aim to explain how we can be more objective & ultimately complain less.

You know a switch went off in me the other day....as per my diagram of the pendulum swing below. When you think about it inside everyone of us is a: Liberal / progressive view - Left Fear of losng what we can be, seeking change for the better, potential for now and future. Conservative view... Continue Reading →