I have a possible solution to resolving disagreements before they become disputes, that you can try without any expensive therapy SPLIT THE DISAGREEMENT into two parts.The content of the disagreement andThe behavior while delivering the content. Then DISAGREE with the content but OBJECT to the behavior of the delivery when one finds it offensive. Do... Continue Reading →
Disagree Vs Object
Disagree with Content - Object with How the Content is delivered in Real-time Here is the tip of the century (my view) or what I have called aSocial Just Culture When we are having a disagreement don't allow ourselves to get confused or sucked into a personal dispute. Only DISAGREE with WHAT (content) someone says.NEVER... Continue Reading →
Social Just Culture
We Believe Every Organisation Should have a Social Just Culture Such as Object123 Psychological Safety:The Psychological Safety movement has been getting some legs over the last 5 years since a few articles came out as a result of Google's research into what makes a successful team at Google. "Psychological safety is being able to show... Continue Reading →
Demeritocracy
There is a lot of talk about meritocracy now a days. Ray Dalio has famously built his Principles around this idea, I believe. But just as importantly I believe we need to include a demeritocracy. That is we get merits when we step up and succeed but we also get demerits when we step up... Continue Reading →
What is Object123?
This is power abuse although many offenders would disagree. Object123 is a simple Social Just Culture tool that we have developed to help stop power abuse in the workplace. We see this as a very important part of workplace health and safety, that is, a Psychological Safety using a Just Culture process. And as Just... Continue Reading →
One Simple Way to Remove Psychological Unsafety in the Workplace!
Type "psychological safety" into Google and you will see a bunch of articles on "so many ways to add or create psychological safety in the workplace". Since the New York Times article in 2016 about Google's research into "What Google Learned From Its Quest to Build the Perfect Team" the buzz phrase has been psychological... Continue Reading →
Measuring Psychological Safety Vs Power Abuse
In summary, I think it is easier to measure and subtract power abuse than to measure and add psychological safety! My question to the person that posted this Parisa Naraei PhD: My reply: "My point is Parisa, that is what is needed with psychological safety, now, to define, design and measure it & get everyone... Continue Reading →
Snowflake!
All the reasons you need to keep your big trap shut! I think that there is too much emphasis on us NOT being offended and NOT speaking up when we are offended. And what we see are terrible arguments, domestic disputes, malicious gossiping etc as the result. That is, very poorly delivered objections, that we... Continue Reading →
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