Now ask any expert on psychological safety and they’ll repeat the same rhetoric, that people need to feel safe (respected) when they speak up. In fact, ask anyone on the street and they’ll probably say the same thing. We all want to be treated with respect, especially when we share ideas or concerns.
Why is conflict resolution at the end of the process and not at the start?
When most workplace conflicts, needing resolution, usually (if not in every case) start with a minor infraction, why not enable team members to effectively address these micro-conflicts well before expensive conflict resolution is ever needed.
Attitude Indicator
Imagine if we had an attitude indicator (Wikipedia) for when we are having discussions during difficult workplace decision-making? It would help us see early on when we were starting to lean too far in one direction, when our tone, emotions, or assumptions were pulling the conversation off balance.
Maintaining Respect: Humanity’s Unsolved Engineering Problem
It seems that most organization consultants and psychology experts on Linkedin talk about respect in teams. From HR manuals to corporate slogans, the message hasn’t changed for millennia: treat people with respect.
The DNA of Dialogue: Why Conversation Must Diverge to Converge
I think a truly great conversation is never a straight line. It twists and turns, converging when understanding is reached, and diverging when curiosity reopens the field. Seen from the side, this pattern looks remarkably like a double helix, two minds circling, rising, and learning in rhythm
When “Team-Building” Isn’t in the Team Charter
Sometimes the friction isn’t a difficult colleague (Narcissist) at all; it’s a ritual that outlived its usefulness. When teams centre on the Charter and let SpatzAI handle real-time respect and accountability, they often discover they need fewer “team-building” events, because the real bond is forged in how they handle minor spats, not in how well they throw a trivia night.
Stop Calling Your Colleague a “Narcissist” and Start Addressing Their Behavior Instead
In many workplaces today, and especially on LinkedIn, the word narcissist gets tossed around like confetti. It seems that everyone has an opinion on fellow team members' mental health now. A teammate pushes back on an idea? “Classic narcissist.” A manager insists on a deadline? “Total narcissist.” Most of these snap judgements aren’t clinical insight, they’re armchair diagnoses. And once that label is out there, the conversation stops being about what actually happened. It becomes personal, polarizing, and unfair, playing the man and not the ball.
Conflict Resolution Vs Dynamic Collaboration
Picture two work colleagues locked in a simmering disagreement. Their spat drags on for weeks, finally reaching HR and senior management. Meetings are scheduled, statements are taken, emotions harden. By the time the official “resolution” arrives, the energy that once drove their work is long gone, trust has eroded, and collaboration has been compromised.
Steve Jobs and the Cost of Dogma
Steve Jobs was brilliant. Few would deny that. His vision reshaped entire industries, and his insistence on excellence pushed teams to do what seemed impossible. But brilliance came at a cost. Jobs’s emotional dogma, his relentless belief that he was right, meant he burned the candle at both ends....
Respect Is Like Air — Accountability Keeps It Flowing
Imagine scrolling LinkedIn and reading just about any post on teamwork. Chances are, it’s about the need for a “respectful culture,” “psychological safety,” and “nurturing it” as an imperative. But really, who doesn’t already believe that respect and feeling psychologically safe are essential? No one, I’d say.
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