Every Workplace Conflict Started Out as a Minor Spat

Serious workplace conflicts rarely, if every appear out of nowhere. The shouting match in the boardroom, the feud between departments, the HR complaints about “toxic culture”, they didn’t just happen. They all began as something much smaller: a raised eyebrow, an offhand remark, a piece of feedback delivered poorly, or a single unfair or minor disrespectful infringement. In other words, a minor spat.

Respect Is Like Air — Accountability Keeps It Flowing

Imagine scrolling LinkedIn and reading just about any post on teamwork. Chances are, it’s about the need for a “respectful culture,” “psychological safety,” and “nurturing it” as an imperative. But really, who doesn’t already believe that respect and feeling psychologically safe are essential? No one, I’d say.

Objective Reality vs Objectionable Behavior

Philosophers have chased the holy grail of objective reality for centuries. Some treat it as the ultimate goal truth independent of any mind, pure and eternal. Others dismiss it as a mirage, forever out of reach. And a third way sees its value not in capturing “the truth” outright, but in continually reducing what is objectionable, the claims, dogmas, and illusions that collapse under scrutiny.

Micro-Conflict Self-Management for Micro-Aggression, Of Course!

Australia’s new psychosocial hazard laws—alongside Safe Work Australia’s definition of bullying as “repeated, unreasonable behavior directed at a worker … that creates a risk to health and safety”—illustrate just how narrow the reporting threshold can be. Micro-aggressions, like a raised eyebrow or a passive-aggressive tone, rarely meet the “repeated and unreasonable” bar.

I Don’t Work For You

A colleague once said to Meg De Keukelaere: “I don’t work for you.” It stopped her in her tracks. Not only was it jarring, it also sparked reflection on rules of engagement, belonging, and the role of core values in shaping culture....

Feedback, Pushback & Backlash

I think I’ve worked out a key blind spot in Amy Edmondson’s thesis on psychological safety. Her definition works well in high-stakes error environments like hospitals or aviation. In those settings, people need to feel safe to admit mistakes without fear of blame. That’s essential — nobody should hide a surgical slip or a checklist error because they’re afraid of punishment. Edmondson’s framing covers that territory well.

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