Disagreements Are Not the Problem, Unresolved Micro-Conflicts Are

Disagreements in teams are not the problem; disagreements that result in unresolved micro-conflicts and misalignment are. A disagreement is often just two people modelling reality differently. It can be useful. It can surface risks, sharpen thinking, and improve decisions. Many high-performing teams disagree frequently, and still collaborate well, by addressing—quickly—any behaviors that create friction or micro-conflicts....

Misbehavior Vs Mistakes

I think a large part of why everyday harm persists in organisations is linguistic rather than psychological. We are precise with work outputs, but evasive with conduct. We have no hesitation calling a bad analytical take a mistake. We do not say, “there is a problem with takes, and some poor takes cause issues.” We name the miss because naming enables correction. A mistake is not moral; it simply means the outcome missed the mark.

How to Be More Objective: From Blaming to Accountability in 3 Steps

The original idea was formed in November 2017 and called Object123. The premise was deliberately simple: if someone experiences objectionable behavior, they should be able to object, in three phases, as needed, directly, in real-time and in a structured way. The goal was not to win arguments or assign moral fault, but to interrupt unproductive dynamics while they are still live and correctable.

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